Financial Self-Sabotage: The #1 Reason You're Blocking Money In Your Business

Stop skipping steps! If you want to grow a sustainable, cashflow positive business - then this is the #1 reason it's not happening right now...

As I come into my 20yr anniversary in business in 2026 (and 50yrs on the planet. YIKES!) - I want to share the MOST important lesson I've had to learn about making money, so I can save you years of pain and set you free financially.

But before I talk about that, which one of these sound like you?

a) You're stuck in information overload...

Every self-appointed guru who's read a book is telling you,

"Do this"...

"No don't do this, do that"...

or "Don't do that, do that other thing"

So your head's constantly spinning with 30,000 Word doc files, endless streams of ChatGPT prompts, affirmations all over your walls... and a course graveyard in your hard drive.

b) Your anxiety is through the roof...

Your nervous system is so tapped out, that you just want to doomscroll and check the fridge 30 times a day instead of put your face on a reel.

c) You're stuck in course addiction...

You're blowing money on every next exciting offer that's gonna make you millions! But the millions ain't coming - which also creates Situation A.

d) You're impatient for the money...

Impatience for some people is an incredible tool, because it gets them moving.

For the rest of us, it's the deathknell to our nervous system, business and bank account - because it sends us into survival mode.

Like a deer in headlights, we can't think clearly enough to make calculated decisions, nor see a clear direction we need to go in, because we're paralysed on what to do next.

Our fear-based impatience to get to the end result (money) hijacks our faculties because we're not AT that step yet.

So we keep tripping over ourselves and making mistakes that set us back even more!

Have you ever tried to put wallpaper up? Or sticky contact on a school book?

If you have, you know that if you do it too fast, it creates wrinkles and ruins it.

But if you go slower, smoothing it out as you go, you're more likely to get a better, long lasting result.

Business is the same

If you're skipping steps, skimming over (or avoiding) tasks in your work and ignoring the red flags - because you're hellbent on hitting that $20k month (but it's not happening) - then you've got a problem.

You're not 'there' at the big money flow stage yet and you need to sloooooow doooown...

be patient...

figure out what's going wrong...

and keep going - bit by bit, day by day!

**QUICK NOTE: Can you make fast money? Absolutely. But if you don't have the nervous system to hold it, you will lose it just as fast. We are building wealth that stays.

So I've got a little tip for you that'll save your life - and I've already said it 30 million times so I'm kinda ruining the surprise - but it bears repeating:

STOP

SKIPPING

STEPS!

So Here's What's Going On...

We've all been sold the lie that business is just some little thing where money rains down from the sky and you get instant millions.

So our expectations in the startup phase are VERY different to when we discover what's REALLY required to build and grow a strong business that pays us consistently.

And because everyone's trying to sell you something - they draw you in with promises of FAST money by giving you a piece of the puzzle.

So you get stuck on the fast-money chasing merry-go-round and blow all your cash on manifesting courses, marketing courses and get rich quick schemes that go absolutely nowhere (and put you even more in the red because you've wasted your money on courses).

As a result, too much information and advice overloads your brain and triggers swathes of anxiety and overwhelm.

Then you gaslight yourself that you're not 'doing enough' - or your 'vibration isn't high enough' because the money's not flowing. You feel out of control with making money - and this completely taps out your nervous system.

From this, a mentally and emotionally exhausted you doomscrolls and makes 30 visits to the fridge... because working feels too frickin' hard.

The guilt compounds.

And your work output is sporadic, so no one's seeing you online and therefore not paying you.

And that's your money block (and why you're so bloody tired and unmotivated).

So are you READY to Eliminate Financial Self-Sabotage...

and take control of your relationship with money?

So, how do we fix it? We start at your mind + body, not the hype.

We have to stop trying to put the roof on the house before we’ve poured the slab.

Here is the Money Control Protocol you need to follow to stop the spiral and take control.

Step 1: Awareness (The Internal War)

You feel stuck it's because there are 2 parts of you at war with each other;

One part of your brain (The Success Part) wants the mansion, the freedom, and the impact.

The other part (The Fear Part) is screaming that "being seen equals Danger" and is slamming on the brakes.

So this is what's creating that horrid anxiety, agitation and overwhelm I talked about above.

The Fix: We have to diagnose exactly which fear program is running (is it a Fawn response? A Freeze response?) so we know what we are dealing with.

Step 2: Money Mind (Hypnosis & Safety)

This is the step everyone skips (and why they struggle so much to move forward).

You can't "hustle" your way out of a panic attack.

If your nervous system is on fire, your brain will do everything in its power to keep you safe... including throwing up overwhelm and procrastination.

Because at the core level, the secret to your success is feeling safe to take the next step with completely neutral feelings as you go about it.

The Fix: Hypnosis. My hypnosis isn't flowery platitudes that 'leave it to the Universe to decide'. With my hypnosis I;

1. Create complete safety in your mind and body. We sneak past the critical part of your brain and move you from "Survival Mode" to "Safety Mode."

2. Use positive and empowering language to make you feel completely in control of money

3. Raise your 'money ceiling' so we blow out your limitations and boundaries

4. Drop you into flow state every time you sit down to work

Step 3: Money Creation (The Strategy)

Now that you're as calm as a cucumber... and thinking BIG, we can actually build the business.This isn't about 50 complicated funnels. It’s about Simplicity and lowering your cognitive load so you can hyperfocus on the ONE thing that moves the needle.

We look at the data, we set up your financial buckets (so the money has a home), and we execute the specific tasks that bring in cash.

The Fix: We replace "Busy Work" (hiding) with "Money Work" (selling). And because you're regulated, you can finally charge your ideal price with your full chest.

Step 4: Embodiment (Money Neutrality)

This is the goal.

Real wealth isn't a manic high; it’s a steady, calm, grounded reality. It’s checking your bank account and seeing tons of money like it's normal. It's creating more and more opportunities to get paid and start building wealth.

The Fix: You will reach a state of Neutrality so you stop identifying as the "Struggling Business Owner" and embody the "Wealthy Entrepreneur." You take total control of your feelings, your lifestyle, and your bank balance.

Ready to Stop Guessing + Start Earning?

You can try to navigate these 4 steps on your own, guessing which problem is driving the bus or wondering which strategy fits your nervous system...

Or we can just fix it together in 30 minutes.

If you are tired of the generic advice and want to uncover your specific money block, book a Money Breakthrough Session.

This isn't a fluffy "chat." It is a 1:1 deep-dive where we:

✔ Uncover Your #1 Money Block – We’ll find the hidden subconscious pattern that’s been capping your income and keeping you stuck

✔ Build Your Step-by-Step Money Creator Plan – Your complete mindset, energy + strategy for opening the money flow

✔ Expert Insights – Get real-time insights from my almost 20 years of qualified experience in business, psychology, hypnosis, and energetics.

And if at the end of the session you're interested in working with me to build out your business, brain + bank account, I'll share options with you based on your budget + needs.